What stands out to me about these studies is: the decreased influence of the family unit on our teens, the rising influence of media, and the fact that the church is off the radar. Certainly it is easy to make “media” the bad guy -- especially with issues of bullying, texting and driving, addiction to games, etc. But media (i.e. internet, email, texting, Tweeting, television, iPhones, computer games) aren’t bad in and of themselves. Technology is inanimate and therefore not capable of good or evil. It is how we use the media available to us that makes a difference. Having a cell phone at the scene of a bad accident can save a life. Modern communication devices can help parents keep tabs on the whereabouts of their children.
Anyway, the influence of the media on our students is not going to go away. Therefore I vote for the proper integration of more media, especially visual media in Sunday school curricula and youth ministry. Visual learning is in! It is used extensively in our schools today; used creatively, visual media can help expose our children to the Christian worldview. This probably means moving away from boring denominational-produced programs to more “locally generated” ministries to our students (which means more work for staff!)
I really don’t know what to say about the decline of families as an influence on our children and teens. Clearly the family is meant to be the most important, first-line influence. However, I also don’t think it does any good to point fingers in a negative way. Clearly, contemporary life is more complicated than “Leave-it-to-Beaver-land.” Today, it is often the case that both parents must work outside the home; and many children today are growing up in a one-parent or divided household. Organized sports and cultural activities are much more pervasive than they used to be.
In that regard, somewhere along the line the spiritual formation and nurture of our children came to be seen as the Church’s responsibility, and thus, another activity in an already busy, if not frenetic, schedule for our youth.
A positive step for families and the church would be for the Church to equip parents to be able to “tell the story” and be able inculcate Christian faith and life into the home, starting at an early age. Here is why I think Adult Formation ministries are the key to the church of tomorrow. That can mean learning more about the Bible, or sharing a book study; it can mean parents of similar-aged children gathering together to learn from each other, supporting and praying together. The sky is the limit really in this regard. Personally, I think our adults at CCE need to take steps to make Adult Christian Formation more of a priority here. I encourage you all to come to the Fall Kickoff on September 7 to learn about all the Christian Formation opportunities we’re offering this fall for children, youth and adults.
Norms and patterns of the 20th century are clearly changing; new paradigms need to emerge if we want our children to grow up in the Christian faith and life, and can engage that faith and life confidently and responsibly in today’s culture.
How exciting if CCE were to be on the cutting edge of strengthening the abilities of our families to be primary loci of Christian formation.
Jeff
